酌 - bar-tending, serving sake, the host

drink at home with one's evening meal; dinner-time drink

matchmaking; acting as a go-between

helping oneself to a drink; pouring one's own drink

drinking alone; solitary drinking

to enter into a person's feelings; to guess what someone feels (using one's intuition)

pouring alcohol

sitting across from each other and drinking together

comparison and choosing the good; consultation; referring to

to pour drinks for each other; to drink together

reduction of punishment in the light of extenuating circumstances

matchmaker; go-between

pouring one's own drinks; drinking alone