酌 - bar-tending, serving sake, the host

matchmaking; acting as a go-between

drink at home with one's evening meal; dinner-time drink

drinking together in a small group

taking the extenuating circumstances into consideration

sitting across from each other and drinking together

reduction of punishment in the light of extenuating circumstances

offering a drink

taking into consideration; making allowances (for)

comparison and choosing the good; consultation; referring to

matchmaker; go-between

getting slightly intoxicated and humming a tune

regret and sympathy; having lingering attachment and sympathy toward someone